I have one of those standard-issue holy-shit level smart friends who is single in the Bay Area that laments about dating in the Bay Area where women can get stuck in poly-situationships they don't like and guys that treat women the same they do startups: as a project to be presented.

She melts for men that are her intellectual equal that have a caring heart, have a drive/purpose and lots of love for life.

So, OBVIOUSLY, I tell her she should join the LW/EA communities that has lots of autistic ADHD mfs that are incredibly heart-warming, attentive and enthusiastically fighting back the world's cthulus with purpose and zeal.

Said communities have LOTS OF INTELLIGENT HOT SINGLE MEN!!!

Resolution is based on where she meets the person that will go on to become her long-term partner where there is a direct line from said meeting to first date. Ergo, If she has already met someone years ago and she meets them again under different circumstances that lead to a date, resolution is based on the most recent meeting point, not the first meeting point.